Day 31: Life 101
I understand that it is difficult to have no negative vibe or feelings towards people, and it is especially difficult to hide it when the negative vibe overloads. To learn how to deal with these feelings is truly a life-long lesson. I forget and forgive things too easily that made me forget these negative vibe after like 2 minutes or... 1 hour at most (that would be extreme). I know some people had taken advantage of me and manipulate me with this characteristic of mine. I don't care because to hold grudges against people and things is tiring and painful. What does it lead to? Only misery and sadness. Therefore, I keep my way of living - to forgive and forget (most of the time).
yeah...reminding yourself to hate someone and then carrying it out is extremely painful.
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it's not easy to not hate anyone, but when there is one time that you really feel very negative about a person, you will know that these emotions do no good to you. They are like a burden, especially when you are such an easy-going person! So ya I agree with ray that those are some good characteristics of yours! When you really feel like can't put up with things anymore, though, you should speak up for yourselves! :) Sometimes conflicts don't need to cause drama, I am sure people will embrace a mature and open conversation!! So ya if from now on whenever you feel uncomfortable because of some accommodations you need to make while spending time with us/living with us, don't worry to voice it out!! ^^
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